This story that’s been going around has been pissing me off so much. Like wow, maybe if you actually put a tenth of the effort that was put into this spreadsheet into figuring out what turns your wife on and off (hint: passive aggressive spreadsheet-making is probably a turn off), you wouldn’t be getting turned down so damn often.
Ugh I hate this so much. And of course, never read the comments. I saw so many saying “Sex is just a natural part of a relationship! Especially for men! Men have needs!”
1. Not everyone is interested in sex
2. Stop with the “men are just naturally more sexual” bullshit
3. You do not owe anyone sex ever. Can it be a bummer if you want it more often that your partner? Yeah, but that’s when you have to be an adult and talk to your partner about it.